I sat to write in my journal a few moments ago and the first words that I wrote were, “I made it!”
These three words have never meant much to me honestly. In fact, they were like a catch phrase that we use in church to signify that we’ve been through something but made it to the other side. It’s equivalent to the phrase “…but God!” But, if I can be honest, hearing this phrase often kind of diluted its significance to me…until now.
“I made it” signifies that we are still alive. It does not mean that we haven’t been hurt during the journey, or even that we’ve dropped off the things that we’ve carried along the way.
“I made it” means that we are still breathing though some of us may have stopped living when the impact happened.
“I made it” means that you had the courage to admit that you made it through but not that you’re willing to show your scars.
“I made it” can be an imprisonment if we’re not careful.
So many times, we like to praise ourselves and others for making it through. When we hear someone’s testimony, rarely if ever, do we wonder if they’ve fully recovered.
No, “recovered” isn’t the right word because we never return to our pre-scarred state.
Somehow, “making it” stretches us out of shape. “Making it” makes us uncomfortable in our own skin for a while. “Making it” is just that…making it.
I wrote that “I made it” before I realized why I wrote it. I wasn’t speaking about “making it” through a storm or even a test, but “making it” through the day.
I “made it” because I was able to master my emotions today that threatened my productivity.
I “made it” because I was able to speak–no matter how briefly–about what I had/was/am experiencing. And, we all know that experiencing something in the present is completely different from looking back on a thing with distance.
So, cheers to everyone who made it today. To everyone who struggled to keep moving in spite of their feelings. To every mother who kissed her children. To every father who sacrificed. To every woman who prayed for her future. To every man who was sustained.
You. Made. It.
And, while your making it may not be mine, we can celebrate together.
*If we celebrate the small wins then we are more prepared to bask in the big ones.